25 and Still Battling my Parents…Will it ever End?
Sunday, February 7th, 2010 at
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Unfortunately, this will only end when you move out and live by your own rules.
When you live with your parents (or anyone else), you have to follow by their own rules. If you don’t like it, get out.
This isn’t to say it’s 100% fair, but there isn’t much you can do unless you can find a way to compromise.
Simply put……..sounds to me like you should be on your own……mom at dad’s don’t deserve it either……..they have a life also…….and need rest………..not crowds……..you know the old story about guess, fish. and 3 days……..well theres a lot of truth to it…………..have fun……….and enjoy yourself.Get out of their lives and they will get out of yours and probably all will be happy
Step up, it is obvious you can not rely on your brother. Just get out and end the suffering on both sides.
Ask yourself. Why did you breakup? There is a reason for why you broke up. Leave the relationship and move on, if it was abusive, or you could try to work it out if you’re really willing to but don’t expect him (or maybe you were the problem) to change.
Anyways about your parents, move out of their house. You’re an adult and you shouldn’t be controlled like that. You need your independence.
Remember your independence is move important than some heart-broken siblings. They will "heal" but you won’t if you don’t leave.
Good luck!
Leave your brother behind. Seems like he will be keeping you at your parents for a long time and this won’t stop untill your out of there. Your parents seem like they have a stick somewhere, no offence. You are 25 and probably have matured enough to make the right choices for your life. Lol or tell them when they get to old to live alone and move in with you that you wont let them do anything.
regroup, make plans to move as soon as possible so you can live by your own rules and have you own peace of mind
Hate to admit it but if you don’t like it you gotta leave. My sister was in this same situation with our parents. She had to learn to deal until she could get out on her own again. It really sucks but they are your parents and no matter how old you are they will still be able to tell you what to do, and not doing it is disrespectful no matter how ridiculous it seems. Good Luck to you and I hope you find a place of your own and that this doesn’t ruin your relationship with your parents.