Boyfriend spends the night, but I live with roommates…?

Saturday, September 5th, 2009 at 10:32 am

Well my boyfriend visits me once a month and always spends the weekend. Naturally, we get "intimate" with each other while he is here. I live in a 4 bedroom apartment and we all have our own rooms (2 on each side of the place). I try my absolute hardest to be as quiet as possible when they are home because I know that it would be both awkward for me and them. I turn on the tv pretty loud and we try so hard to make sure the bed doesn’t make noises. The roommate that lives on the same side as me does not like me whatsoever. I have tried so hard to act nicely towards her, but she has an angry temper and has even knocked over the barstools in her anger. I do my best to tell her days beforehand when my boyfriend plans on visiting, but she still has a problem that he comes. (I pay the same rent she does and we either stay locked in my bedroom or go out). We try our best to stay out of sight. I am always nervous because she has my moms cell number.. I dont know how to handle this. Any advice?
Naturally my parents do not know that he comes to see me. Yes, we are old enough to be responsible for our own sex lives (so please, I would appreciate it if you didn’t submit answers telling me how horrible I am because we aren’t married. I am not looking for your religious insight.) Point is, we are old enough; however, my parents do not know that he comes to visit me, or that we are intimate with eachother. Which is why I am nervous that my soon to be ex-roommate has saved my moms number this whole year. Also, I am moving out and I would like for her to delete my moms number, as she should no longer need it. She is the kind of person who, months from now, even though we no longer live together, would call my mom out of spite and spill the beans about me and my bf. In addition to my previous question, any advice about how to ask her to delete my moms number would be greatly appreciated! Thanks =]

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Rockstar Whiteboy says:

September 5, 2009 at 10:32 am

Heres a few things first of all when you turn the tv up loud enough so it will mask wut you and your BF are doing your roommates already know what your doing. basically every couple who lives with other people do this I know what me and my old roommates did it lol kinda fun when all of sudden the tv volume shoots up in the middle of the night. Dead Hint. And for the the roommate that hates you wait one day and see if she leaves her cell phone laying around and then just go and find your mothers # and delete it. Or you can throw a party with everyones permission wait till she gets drunk and then ask to see her cell phone and just act like your playing with it and then delete the number.
sportguy says:

September 5, 2009 at 10:32 am

get your own place

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