How to resolve this issue before it gets out of hand.?

Friday, August 20th, 2010 at 11:54 am

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punchie says:

August 20, 2010 at 11:54 am

Wow, that is quite a story. Look, here’s the deal. This issue is already out of hand. If you’ve got warrants out for you…that is a big deal. My suggestion is this…unless you can prove that all of those items were actual gifts…(e.g. via letter, email or text exchange…) it’s a tough case to prove. If he had you all sign an actual lease stating that the housing came "furnished" & or has receipts of any sort, then he does have something to work with. The bottom line is this…always always know…that if you knowingly accept something from someone you NEVER intended to be involved with or it started out with "strings attached" then there will always be strings attached. The best policy is to not accept gifts from "strangers". Yes, the bottom line is friendly or not friendly…he was a stranger…he knew what he wanted ultimately…you & your girlfriend knew what the deal was going in…that things are seldom "free" in life. His whole being screamed, "Use me…use me…go ahead…it’s ok"…and so you did…you used him. BUT you didn’t have to…you all could have provided for yourselves with no strings attached and a sense of pride for taking care of yourselves. Sure, he used you all in some form or fashion (it’s a power trip for some "with an agenda") to be able to provide and be the "have" for the "have nots" and then start calling the shots…that’s the bottom line.
There was verbal agreement all around…that’s the problem…when you don’t get things spelled out in writing or letters or anything…it’s all going to boil down to he said…she said. Talk to your lawyer…good luck.
reeseg1 says:

August 20, 2010 at 11:54 am

refer to her lawyers thoughts

A Word About Choosing Bar Stools

Finding and choosing the right kind of Bar Stools or counter stools for your bar, home or your kitchen is an important part choice, as many different sizes, materials, finishes and colors.
First of all, decide if you are choosing Counter Stools or Bar Stools, as they are somewhat different. Bar stools are usually a little taller, by around 4 inches. A good measurement to consider is to make sure that the stool's cushion or seat is about 10 to 12 inches from the underside of the bar or counter. That way, you know that you and your guests will be seated comfortably and have suitable leg room while seated.
Sometimes you may want to go with backless stools, if you don't have a lot of space or room. They have no backs or arms and so they are easier to move around.
Another important consideration is choosing the right height of the foot rests of your bar stools. If you don't get the right foot rest heights ahead of time, you may not be getting the right stools and people will not be very comfortable or have proper leg room while sitting at your home bar.
Of course, seating comfortably will be different for everyone, but if you sit and see the foot rest height is good for you, it will probably do for most. Unless you are getting custom bar stools made for you, you have to get them with the foot rests as they are.
Take your measurements with you when you go shopping and know the heights of the counter or bar surface and underside and ask for help from the salesperson if you are not sure of what sizes to get.
If you purchase adjustable barstools, where you can raise or lower the height of the stool itself, then it's easier to allow the user to adjust to find the right height for the most comfort while sitting. This is ideal if you want to use the stools for different places in your home, from the kitchen counter to the home bar or a kitchen island, for example. Most brands and makers of kitchen and bar stools that are adjustable allow about 10 to 15 inches, which can accommodate almost anyone.

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