Is this boy just not into me?
I think he likes me, but I feel like I’m getting mixed signals. I really like him, and I don’t know what to do.
Almost three months ago, he used to talk to me online all the time. He asked me to hang out once, I asked to hang out once, then he suddenly went AWOL on me, especially after a friend of mine hinted to him that I might ask him out on a date soon. When she asked him if he liked me or not, or saw potential in dating me he said something like it didn’t matter if he liked me or not, he liked his own thing, his own routine. He wasn’t looking for a relationship, and didn’t want to lead anyone on.
I left him alone, and didn’t hear from him for a while. Just when I was ready to give up on him, thinking he just wasn’t into me, he slowly started talking to me again online. Now, the last few times we’ve hung out with a group of people, he’s been glancing at me. At a restaurant after dinner, he took his time leaving, fixing chairs then walked out behind me. At a bar recently, I noticed he was watching me sometimes. When I arrived at his place to play some poker with people he seemed a little nervous at first when he saw me, and didn’t look at me right away. At his apartment, he smiled at me as I was watching him playing with his dog. I smiled back. Now I’m quite shy, and a bit afraid to be more forward with anything. Also, I don’t want him to run off on me again. All our conversations have been online. He doesn’t invite me to things as he did when we first met. So I’m not sure if he really even wants to hang out with me.
So I’m a bit confused. Should I do something? Does he even still like me? Is he interested again? Can anyone shed any light on this boy’s behavior?
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Maybe he is just wanting to take it slow. He is probably into you if he continues to communicate with you online. Maybe it is his way of discovering who you are.
He could be interested in someone else like you are with him. The only way to know is to maintain communications but do not over do it.
He may like you as a person and enjoy your company but he may not be into you in regards to a relationship.
Get some friends together and do some exciting things to see how he acts when he is in a different element. EX: You mentioned Restaurant, bar scene and private poker session. So find something like Rafting, tubing, camping, Hiking, sky-diving, boating, skiing or road trip to get him out of his element. You need him to open up and not necessarily to you but in general so you can read him better.
Make sure a mutual friend invites him. A group of 6-8 would be ideal for any mini-adventure.
sorry he’s not that in to you
wow thats weird , cant really tell u whats goin on with that sorry………………
watch the movie… he’s just not that into you lol
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he likes you and doesn’t know how to handle it. i would take a chill pill yourself. Girls who ask guys out are asking for trouble, they see it as being loose if you take my drift. it should be the guy doing the asking.
let him bring up the subject. its my personal motto, if a guy is interested in me, then he needs to have the balls enough to aske me out himeself.
Ohmigawd. You sound like a high school girl. If you were at a bar, that means you should be old enough to get over the school-girl shyness and just talk to him!
okay my eyes started hurting the moment i looked at this thing so out of intuition i’m gonna say no, he’s a f*ggish loser.
he likes you, he just doesnt know how to tell you or how to show it,
guys can be idiots
ask him directly
This is a tough one….u gotta find out, but since your shy, i would ask online….it might work
he likes u just dont wana relationship. move on i would, or make him jelous (: hel run back too you then xxxx