By: Zell

Zell — Mon, 01 Feb 2010 02:33:56 +0000

Going to college is a drastic change in environments and with that comes the need for adaptation. That doesn’t mean you have to change who you are but chances are you will end up different in some way because of the experiences you have. As far as the dressing – If it’s something you enjoy and value then you should continue to do so. You may find, however, that your values change. You seem like a very ambitious person and your goals are commendable but I feel like they need to be more focused. It is great that you want to go into surgery and business but have you thought about what that entails? You don’t just become a surgeon, you have to do four years of medical school followed by at least four more years of residency and specialization. When you become a doctor, especially a surgeon, you commit your life to it. I’m not saying your ambitions are impossible, I just hope you know what you are getting into. And the drinking and partying, I also fell into that scene when I first got to school. It is something that, in high school, I never envisioned myself in. But it is an experience nonetheless and it’s fine that you are having fun and becoming more outgoing. College is a time to find yourself and even redefine yourself into the person you want to be. Almost everyone goes through periods in their life where they lose faith or change their beliefs in something. Drinking and partying in college is almost like a right of passage, but as long as you don’t get too crazy with it and don’t lose sight of your goals it’s not a big deal.
You may feel like you are two different people at the moment, but you are really just in a transitional phase of your life. And hopefully you will come out of it heading in the right direction. Best of luck.

By: Devine Sunshine

Devine Sunshine — Mon, 01 Feb 2010 02:33:56 +0000

I couldn’t finishing reading it man, sorry.

By: krisee

krisee — Mon, 01 Feb 2010 02:33:56 +0000

You sound nice
It’s just the environment you’re in that shapes/affect you in some way.
You might want to take a step back, consolidate your thoughts, think about what you want yourself to be before getting overwhelmed by things you find is against your morals.

By: rokerbabygirl

rokerbabygirl — Mon, 01 Feb 2010 02:33:56 +0000

i think this is more of a discussion you need to have with someone than a question someone can answer. i didnt finish reading it all but just enjoy being your own person. you can be two ppl if you want, nothings wrong with two personalites

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