Male married older coworker's intentions?
Saturday, March 6th, 2010 at
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That’s a lion’s den and he’s trying to pick her up for him and his wife.
Tell your friend to go for it.
What I think is that a 32 year old woman is completely capable of taking care of herself, without your intervention. It’s odd to me that you feel compelled in any way to meddle in this.
No, you’re not wrong.
Most married guys who look to befriend younger women want an affair. They don’t want to play golf with them.
Okay, a 32 year old is a woman, not a "girl."
That said, your girlfriend IS A GROWN WOMAN and can handle the situation herself. Even if he is a total lech, he can’t force her to do anything she doesn’t want to do without assaulting her. If he does actually put moves on her, she can get him into serious trouble for sexual harassment.
If his behavior bothers her, she needs to report it to the HR department, as well as de-friend him on Facebook and not spend any time with him outside of work. If it doesn’t bother her, that’s per prerogative.
She should be able to handle this on her own.
no, you’re not wrong, but i think that 1 of 3 things is possible 1. he keeps mentioning the wife because he is trying to convince your friend, his wife, and himself that nothing is going on by introducing your friend to his wife (also banking on the fact that his wife is an idiot). 2. he wants your friend and his wife doesn’t care because she is doing the same thing herself with other guys. 3. he wants your friend and his wife and is trying to gauge his wife’s reaction to a threesome with your friend.
all of which can blow up in your friend’s face in the long run. look, she’s going to do what she wants in the end…but it’s not a good idea to mess w/ married men…even less so when it’s a married guy that you work with. however, there’s nothing you can do to stop her from doing what she wants to do. you might have to really ask yourself why you care so much.