My Husbands Friend and the Best man in Our wedding is a good guy. My husband now 24 and his Friend who is 19 grew up next to each other when my husband moved from Russia to the USA.
Here is the Help I need.

Jr who is my husbands Friend lives in Complete Fifth with his 13 year old sister and Parents. They have 7 cats who Pee and Poop everywhere, In the Kitchen on the furniture Etc. Every time we go visit the Whole house reeks of piss and poop. There are filthy dishes with Bugs swarming in the Kitchen.The Daughters bed reeks of Cat peep and poop and is nasty. Her clothing is Dirty and there only Bathroom leeks and as mold everywhere.
I can’t Stand going into the house. Every time I do visit the daughter complains of being hungry and there is only dirty nasty food in the Kitchen so I end up taking her out.This family is a Nice family but has fallen on hard times. But I breaks my heart seeing the condition that the family lives in. I have invited them to my house for dinner but they cannot afford the gas to drive 20 miles. I have gotten the Daughter clothing and things she needs. My husband and I just bought our first house, Its is small but very clean and cozy. We have invited Jr and his Sister to stay with us but because of work and school it’s just too far.
My husband was only 12 when he met the family and things were different then.
I really want to help them but I don’t see how else I can. What Do I do?
I am only 22 and adopted myself from a similar situation. I am not sure how far helping will go.

My Husbands Friend and the Best man in Our wedding is a good guy. My husband now 24 and his Friend who is 19 grew up next to each other when my husband moved from Russia to the USA.
Here is the Help I need.

Jr who is my husbands Friend lives in Complete Fifth with his 13 year old sister and Parents. They have 7 cats who Pee and Poop everywhere, In the Kitchen on the furniture Etc. Every time we go visit the Whole house reeks of piss and poop. There are filthy dishes with Bugs swarming in the Kitchen.The Daughters bed reeks of Cat peep and poop and is nasty. Her clothing is Dirty and there only Bathroom leeks and as mold everywhere.
I can’t Stand going into the house. Every time I do visit the daughter complains of being hungry and there is only dirty nasty food in the Kitchen so I end up taking her out.This family is a Nice family but has fallen on hard times. But I breaks my heart seeing the condition that the family lives in. I have invited them to my house for dinner but they cannot afford the gas to drive 20 miles. I have gotten the Daughter clothing and things she needs. My husband and I just bought our first house, Its is small but very clean and cozy. We have invited Jr and his Sister to stay with us but because of work and school it’s just too far.
My husband was only 12 when he met the family and things were different then.
I really want to help them but I don’t see how else I can. What Do I do?
The mother makes about 200 dollars a week Working at home based day care. The Father works for Ford but was Laid off.
I am not sure of there whole background but they only have a HS education.
The cats are there lives and it would break there heart if they were let go.
They do make Money. The dad brings home about 500 a week.
They feed there cats dollar store crap. All the cats have worms and Fleas too. I bought my new dog by for a visit and he came home with Fleas. We keep a Accumulate house.

my son is three and refuses to listen. i have been telling him for weeks no climbing on the furniture. and i punish him when he does. well today the little devil. thats how hes acting goes in my kitchen and get the trash can and climbs on the counter and kicks one of my glasses to the floor shattering it. how do i curb this kind of behavior. hes not allowed sugar or caffiene. he doesnt eat canned fruit. whatelse can i do to stop this before i have no dishes. my dishes are all glass. daddy is in the military and gone alot so its just him and me. please only serious non judgemental answers. i will report any rude ones. any good advice will do thanks
he has hurt himself. he broke his elbow last october
i cant take him to the park is nearly a hundred degrees every day. this behavior only just started and daddy is home right now.
hes not diabetic. sugar and caffeine make him very hyper

Ive been dating my girl friend for about 9 months. And everytime we go down an aisle at a store that is like home stuff like for example; furniture, dishes, kitchen stuff, etc. I always think about marrying her. Im only in high school. Is this normal for a guy?

I’m not sure I asked that correctly, but the deal is I am a caregiver for a neighbors elderly mother, When I was hired I was asked to come in daily from 9am-noon and assist with meal preparation, make her bed, keep her room clean, and assist her to walk, and they offered me this and allow me to bring my daughter to work (12 months)

Now she told me other than to maintain her mothers addition to home (living room, bedroom and bathroom), I would need to do dthe dishes in the ‘main house’, and vacuum floors in main living room and that was okay.

The problem lies here, they are now having me clean their bathroom, clean their formal, and informal living rooms, formal.informal didning rooms, washing windows, cleaning kitchen, polishing furniture, washing walls and all that.

All for /hour, the same pay as I agreed to for being the caregiver, oh and they changed the hourse to 10am to 1pm, which works not as good for me.

I’m not sure I asked that correctly, but the deal is I am a caregiver for a neighbors elderly mother, When I was hired I was asked to come in daily from 9am-noon and assist with meal preparation, make her bed, keep her room clean, and assist her to walk, and they offered me this and allow me to bring my daughter to work (12 months)

Now she told me other than to maintain her mothers addition to home (living room, bedroom and bathroom), I would need to do dthe dishes in the ‘main house’, and vacuum floors in main living room and that was okay.

The problem lies here, they are now having me clean their bathroom, clean their formal, and informal living rooms, formal.informal didning rooms, washing windows, cleaning kitchen, polishing furniture, washing walls and all that.

All for /hour, the same pay as I agreed to for being the caregiver, oh and they changed the hourse to 10am to 1pm, which works not as good for me.

Our kitten hides from our family and we have trouble coaxing him out. We adopted him from whiskers. He was handled by a wonderful caregiver who cured him of respiratory problems as a small kitten. He is very shy. We have a 12 year old female who is pretty cuddly but hisses at the new member so we have been trying to introduce them slowly. They have separate dishes and kitty box. Our house can be noisy with kids over. We thought it might be helpful to keep the kitten in my daughters room with her at night and we have the litter box in her room and cat food until the kitten adjusts. My husband thinks that this is unsanitary and the food and box should be downstairs in the kitchen. However, when we bring the kitten downstairs, it seems afraid and wants to run and hide under furniture and not eat. How can we ease the transition for this adorable frightened kitten? we have only had him for three days. (christmas present for my daughter). The cat has been neutered and shots too.

I have a kitchen aid dishwasher and it worked really good. Top of the line and then it stopped working as good and got really bad and now it hardly cleans the dishes. The top bar has stopped spinning around. how do i fix this problem besides going out and buying a new one? Email me at easternram@yahoo.com thanks alot.

Our household consists of:

Adults:
Mother: 44, stays at home
Father: 49, works 6 days a week

Teens:
20, in college
19, works

Kids: 14, 12, 11, 9, 8, 6

Chores are: dishes/kitchen, laundry, vacuuming, bathrooms, taking out trash, dusting furniture

My problem is figuring out who should do what and how often…

Any ideas?

Thanks!

Whenever I have guests over, I always:
~pick up dirty clothes and miscellaneous clutter scattered
~wash all dishes
~vacumn, mop wood floors/bathroom/kitchen
~wipe off counters, make sure toilet and tub are clean

what else do guests really look at to come up with the idea that I have a dirty house? I don’t want to have to hire a professional to move all furniture and clean every little corner every time someone comes over.

Our household consists of:

Mother: 44, stays at home
Father: 49, works 6 days a week

Kids:
20, in college
19, works
And six school age children – 6, 8, 9, 11, 12 and 14 years of age.

Chores are: dishes/kitchen, laundry, vacuuming, bathrooms, taking out trash, dusting furniture, feeding cats, cooking meals.

My problem is figuring out who should do what and how often…

Any ideas?

Thanks!

I am looking for bedroom, livingroom, kitchen furniture/supplies (ie dishes, pots/pans, etc) I just got a new apartment in the Tulsa, Ok area and am in dier need!! Freebee’s are great if anyone has anything decent. I am willing to spend wisely also. Thanks for all the help!

what 3 things would you buy or have bought from a garage sale?
Anything…eg. clothing, baby items, electronics, kitchen dishes, household items, furniture, etc.

I’m having the living room carpets replaced. And I’ll clean the kitchen floor. Those are the only 2 rooms that flooded. I’ll throw away damaged belongings, furniture. But do things that didn’t even get wet have to be disinfected too?

I knew a family whose *basement* flooded, but somewhere mold grew on their dishes UPSTAIRS. My flood was nowhere near as bad and the water receeded quickly but still…?

What should I do to make sure it’s clean and disinfected here?

My fiance and I are going to be buying a house in two years, and we are starting to save. I’m in charge of the furniture part, and was wondering how much I should save. Right now we’ve budgeted about ,000 for furniture, including: Sofa, Coffee table, washer/dryer, refridgerator, assorted kitchen items(dishes, cooking utensils), and maybe a bed, but we’re not sure yet (because we both have beds right now that could be used if need be).

Is there any other pieces of furniture I’m missing? What should our budget be? Also, any tips/suggestions would be greatly appreciated!