When you teenager 18-19 or young adult living at home decides to move out, what are you allowing them to take?

Like I plan on moving out as soon as my cars fixed and I have a job to support myself comfortably. I expect to be able to take my bed, any furniture in my room, my tv all my clothes, the desk in my room. The extra kitchen table/chairs and the spare couch in the basement.

Would that be too unreasonable?
What are you going to let your kids take when they move out?
Or
What did you let your teens/young adults take when they moved out?

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details: live together in house for 2 years.
She cannot possibly make the payment on her own.
Only her name is on it so i could just go but i feel bad doing that
I also feel really bad leaving her 7 year old daughter.
Also when we bought the house i put up 3000 of my own money for downpay and payed half the payment every month. I dont think i would ever see that. I also bought just about everything in the house. Do i take the couchs, tvs, kitchen table, microwave, beds, patiio furniture, bbqpit, lawnmower, ect….?
she would only be left with one bed for her and daughter and a little tv.
the big issue is i know even a roommate would not work because she needs about 00 month from someone to make it work (i did the math)
I love her so much but i can tell she doesn’t love me anymore and has a plan to cheat on me (saw in email).
So staying with someone who wont let me touch her anymore and does nothing but bitch at me is out of the question. I posted up some issues we had on YA in the last couple days and everyone agrees to dump her ass. But what about her kid? what about the house? Should i wait till she actually goes thru with the cheating she is planning with this guy when he gets back in town in 10 days? Why do i feel so bad leaving her?

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Background

Assets is only Home worth about 70k and 1,800.00 in IRA
Filed Bk due to lack of child support payments (yes it is going through the courts but it takes years to get anything done)

Owe IRS 5 k in back taxes due to error in tax software (learned my lesson on that one)

Make about 2300 mo. debt is about 2100 per month (without gas). They want me to pay 80 per month but I know that will take food and/or gas.

Should I
A. Sell my furniture (my daughters bed, kitchen table some dressers, jewelry (I only have a ring and necklace and misc I have a computer that doesn’t work (I am on my work computer)?

B. Get rid of Cable (which is my only source of entertainment at this stage)

C. Both.

What would you do in my shoes?

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okay,
my 3 year old son goes to my mom’s during the day for his daycare because i can not afford day care for him and his sister since he turned 3 he has been acting out all day when i am gone jumping on the furniture , walking on the kitchen table, breaking toys, saying things to her like i don’t have to when she puts him in the corner for time out he laughs at her and tells her she is funny …now my mom has a bad back and can not chase him but he gets out the front door no matter how many locks you have on the door and runs away and thinks it funny …i’v tried taking away all his toys, i’v took away the T.V shows he likes, he has been all they way down to only getting meals and water to drink because i told him that little boys that act up don’t get the good stuff to eat ..and my mom backs me up on everything i say but it’s not working he has gotten so bad when he is over there that my dad says that if i don’t get him undercontroll he can’t come back …please help

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I purchased everything I need for a home of our own (mine and my NOW ex gf.). I have all the furniture, appliances, dishes, expensive cookware, kitchen table, etc….I saved up 00, so far, as start-up money….I asked her to marry me, she said yes…I know how to make love VERY well…Well maybe I am not THE BEST at it, but who is? And now I am stuck, single and alone…..She up and left me…of course for another man…All I want out of my life is to get out of my parents house and lead a life…Be exclusive to one woman…I can only hope it would be returned…so far…nothing….I even tried communicating my thoughts to her….She ran away….Communication is one of my best attributes…I look others in the eye when I speak to them…Is it me?
This would be my third relationship that has bit-the-dust….

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I’m recently divorced, and met a WONDERFUL man about a month ago. Things are going well, and we seem to be getting serious. Anyway, this guy is obviously well off and I don’t have much of anything. Like I said, I went through a divorce and moved into my apartment with my son’s furniture and a kitchen table. The rest has been graciously donated. He’s seen my apartment, and nothing has changed. He has to know that I’m not exactly living high on the hog. My question is this… he’s extremely financially responsible. I have bad credit and very little in savings. When should I tell him? It’s only been a month, but we are moving pretty quickly.

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I am now in the process of painting my living room i painted my kitchen Yellow and Tan here are similar colors Butter up-6681 Nomadic Desert- 6107
I plain on patting my living room which is interconnected to my kitchen and family nook a pale green color springtime-6708
These areas are somewhat well lit (I love tons of natural light so i plan on getting sky lights)
My worry is these colors are too cool and will make these 3 areas look plain, boring and/or these colors are may clash.
My living room furniture is a coo coo brown
my kitchen table is a counter height deep reddish brown in color the table top has a med/thin black border. If you have any suggestions on kitchen colors that will go well with sprintime-6708 as that would be fine.

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my cat is about 3 and weve tried everything to stop her from jumping on our kitchen table and scratching furniture.. weve bought " sticky paws" which is double sided tape that her paws stick gently to when she scratches the couch and she learned quickly not to do it. the table on the other hand is a whole other story. for soooo long weve been tapping her in the back end and spraying her with the squirt gun yelling and everything nothing helps! the squirt gun will get her off but she will jump back up in about 5 - 10 min if not sooner. after shes squirted for a while she considers it a bath and will basically laugh at me when i tell her to get down. i am pregnant and cant get up as often as i used to and its almost like she knows i wont get up and force her off the table so the more she does it.. so does anyone have any suggestions before this cat drives me crazy?>>>

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Me and my best friend want to move out together. I’m doing this mainly for her. She is my best friend and I love her to death. She grew up without much and she is a foster kid. The agency told her that she has to be out of the foster home the monday after she graduates. Which sucks for her because that doesnt give her much time to find a place. Today we went looking at some places. She now has her heart set on the last one that we looked at. They are nice apts but the 2nd room is tiny. We both want the bigger room, naturally. I feel that i should get it because I am bringing in more money and the way it looks, I will have to move in before she graduates to hold the place. She threw in my face that she is bringing in the kitchen table and the furniture. Oh and she has a bigger bed set then I do. The way it looks, this is going to ruine our friendship. I dont want that to happen. I’m about ready to tell her that she can move in with someone else. What should i do?

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My cat is a very clean cat. She is always cleaning herself but two days ago I noticed that she had dry poop hanging from her behind. I try to take it off with a warm wet napkin but it was to hard to do so I gave her a shower. Today her behind was completely covered in poop. I cleaned her again and eventhough she doesn’t like it and does everything to run away I did it. Why does she have poop on her behind. I had never had this problem with her. Is she not cleaning herself down there or is she sick. My cat is not fat. Last time I took her to the vet she weighed 7 lb and they did not tell us she is overweight. Is not a matter of she not being able to reach either because I’ve seen her clean herself there and around her bum. Is she being lazy. Her litter is always clean. Should I take her to the vet. She had worms before but was dewormed. I dewormed her last month. We have not seen any since.

For me this is a huge problem because she likes to climb our furniture and kitchen table. She also likes to sleep in our beds.

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I’m 25 and live with my parents, they don’t ask me to do much around the house but, since learning how to drive and not having my license yet I don’t have much options since I’m not allowed to help on the crop farm.

Anyway lately I’ve been getting sick and tired of just laying around, watching tv or being online. Yesterday I vacuumed the living and dining room and its furniture. Today I dusted the dining room furniture and kitchen table.

Yesterday the vacumming took me an hour and 50 minutes, it’d be awesome to find something to do around the house that lasts at least 4 hours. maybe clean the house everyday. Suggestions? I keep asking my mom but she doesn’t ask much of me. She’s very lenient
Can’t you people read? I DONT HAVE A DRIVER’S LICENSE YET! I live 11 miles OUT OF TOWN!

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How much do you think it would cost to move from West Virginia to Lousiana? I don’t mind using Uhaul or something similar. I have a one bedroom apartment, and I don’t have a lot of furniture, just a dresser, bed, book shelf, night stand, tv console (that is small) and vanity. Oh and four chairs and a very small kitchen table.
I don’t want to sell my stuff I have nice furniture from Bombay that I bought a couple of months ago.

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My fiance and I are looking into buying a condo. We are both 20 years old (Engaged, but taking our time!!). Together we have most of the furniture items that we will need (including beds, bedroom furniture, living room furniture and kitchen-ware such as silverware, pots, pans, plates, cups..etc… the only essentials that we are missing will be a couch!! and a kitchen table/chairs!! which we will get on our own.

My grandma said that once we move in, she wants to throw us a little house warming with family and some very close family friends (people we refer to as aunt and uncle, that sourta deal).. She said that in the invitations she’ll list a few gift suggestions (bathroom towels, dish-towels, curtians) along with some details about our new home (colors etc…)

I hate asking people for gifts, and at the same time I know that this would help a lot!!

Is this rude though?? Do people usually bring gifts to a house warming??

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have been with my girlfriend for nearly 3 years,im 27 she is 24…we really had a great relationship up until i bought a house about 5 months ago…i asked her to move in so she did…we were both really excited about our future etc…things were fine for a while,but the house didnt feel like our home,money was tight and i coudnt afford to buy kitchen table,furniture etc immediately…my girlfriend started getting down about her job and i have a business that was struggling at the time,there were other issues outside our relationship that was having an effect on it,i know how important communication is but ours just dissapeared for some reason(it was always great before)so we sat down and spoke one evening and decided maybe we moved in together too soon…she moved back to her old place…it was tough but i think sometimes you have to take 1 step back to take 2 steps forward…after all that we both decided that communication was the big issue we had to deal with living together,and we were getting on great…i was getting the house up to scratch to make it comfortable for both of us,we both went to choose things for it so it would feel like home for us…then suddenly she became very distant a few weeks ago,we met and i asked her what was up,she started crying saying "she feels weve gone backwards with her moving out and she felt unhappy"…i told her if she needs time to think things over thats fine,id wait as long as it took just as long as she was happy…i drove home very upset..then when i looked at my phone when i got home i had 3 missed calls from her so i rang her….she said shed made a huge mistake and that i was the love of her life and no-one would treat her better than i would and was sorry for taking me for granted over the last while…i love her so i said we’ll pretend tonight never happened…she seemed really relieved and happy and said she was just thinking too much because some of her friends were engaged and a few were getting married…we have discussed marriage of late and its something i really want…anyway,we saw each other the next night and had a great laugh but ever since she has become distant again??its just really strange…i love this girl so much and just want her to be happy even if its not with me…any advice?

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have been with my girlfriend for nearly 3 years,im 27 she is 24…we really had a great relationship up until i bought a house about 5 months ago…i asked her to move in so she did…we were both really excited about our future etc…things were fine for a while,but the house didnt feel like our home,money was tight and i coudnt afford to buy kitchen table,furniture etc immediately…my girlfriend started getting down about her job and i have a business that was struggling at the time,there were other issues outside our relationship that was having an effect on it,i know how important communication is but ours just dissapeared for some reason(it was always great before)so we sat down and spoke one evening and decided maybe we moved in together too soon…she moved back to her old place…it was tough but i think sometimes you have to take 1 step back to take 2 steps forward…after all that we both decided that communication was the big issue we had to deal with living together,and we were getting on great…i was getting the house up to scratch to make it comfortable for both of us,we both went to choose things for it so it would feel like home for us…then suddenly she became very distant a few weeks ago,we met and i asked her what was up,she started crying saying "she feels weve gone backwards with her moving out and she felt unhappy"…i told that i loved her and if she needs time to think things over thats fine,id wait as long as it took just as long as she was happy…i drove home very upset..then when i looked at my phone when i got home i had 3 missed calls from her so i rang her….she said shed made a huge mistake and that i was the love of her life and no-one would treat her better than i would and was sorry for taking me for granted over the last while…i love her so i said we’ll pretend tonight never happened…she seemed really relieved and happy and said she was just thinking too much because some of her friends were engaged and a few were getting married…we have discussed marriage of late and its something i really want…anyway,we saw each other the next night and had a great laugh but ever since she has become distant again??its just really strange..she doesn’t call when she says she will and says she’s busy if i ask does she want to go out some night,just things like that…i love this girl and just want her to be happy…any advice?

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