I met someone from match.com, and we went on our first date this past Monday, after we had a good chat online, and we HIT it off on our date, we had dinner at a nice restaurant, and then we watched a movie, as we cuddled together in our chairs. We had our first kiss after dinner, on our way to the movies. We both are from South Asia(Desi). He is 33 and I am 28. After we met, we discovered that, we have ALOT of mutual friends. He went to school with my cousin, who is a good friend of his, and, he knows my brother as well. After we discovered that, I felt more comfortable with him. We both were VERY attracted to one another, and we did ALOT more then just kissing(I got a small love mark on my neck after the night was over, We did feel one another a lot too.. Don’t get me wrong, but, I never do this at all with just any guy I meet. I have dated lots of guys in the past, but, I was just not attracted to them at all. But, after meeting him, I just couldn’t control myself. I told him that I have a 3-6 month rule about having sex. He respected that completely, and said that he does not want something short term, but a long term relationship. We planned our next date the next night, on Tuesday. We had plans to go bowling, but, coz it was a work night, he was running a little late, so we just decided to go over to his place and watch some movies (It was totally my idea). At his place, we started to get intimate and couldn’t finish watching the whole movie, coz it was just difficult to keep our hands off from one another. We went back up to his room, coz he has room mates, and we made love the whole night. He hugged me and kissed me all night as we slept. But, he noticed that I got a bit quiet after we had sex, and assured me, that he doesn’t want me to think, he is thinking negative things about me. We made plans to go out tonight, after he dropped me off at my apt on Wednesday morning. From Wednesday till yesterday night, we would speak and text each other back and forth. He confirmed our date for tonight too. He went out last night, coz he had an out of town friend come over, so they just went to the bar, he wanted to come over last night to spend time with me, but, I said no, coz it was sooo late for the night. All of our conversations, we had from Wednesday, till last night were good. I got up this morning at noon, and texted him a “good morning”, but heard no reply back from him, so at about 7:15pm I called and left him a voice mail, saying, that I have not heard back from you all day, and hope you are okay. I am just feeling a bit vulnerable. And feel, I hope he is not ignoring me, or did I have a one night stand mistakenly… We also planned that we will cook dinner together next weekend, last night. Do you think I am just overreacting to this, or should I just be patient a little bit. I just would feel better, to know where I am standing, and I am not interested in playing games. Please help, I need someone else’s point of view to this.