Just would like to start off by saying i am a 19 year old comfortably gay male.

So i like this guy (Michael) that i met online March 2010 and we finally met after the club in January

2011 and we really vibed and i felt like it would be the start of something more but it wasn’t. For the

next two months i would text him off an on and it always seemed like he didn’t want to make time for

me because he would selectively respond. (keep in mind he told that he’s more of a texter than talker)

….I’m 19 in college and he’s 24 and is a manager at a furniture store…he’s a really nice guy and

when we are together its like pure chemistry which is so hard to find now a days. We recently saw

each other at the club again and i went home with him and we cuddled & slept together (no sex) and

i left in the morning…we text through out that week and on friday he wanted me to go to the bar with

him…i wasn’t sure if he was coming alone so luckily my friends were there…we sat with them and

they left early which left us alone and we talked/flirted for 2 hours until the bar closed…this was 2

weeks ago and since then he selectively responds to my texts…i recently saw him at the club and

didn’t speak but instead text him after wards and told him i saw him and also was unsure if it was

him or not because he asked why didn’t i speak.

At this point im at a total loss. He’s sending me all these mixed signals. Should i continue to try to

subtly get him to ask me out and show more interest or should i just be more direct and ask him out

myself or just let it go and focus on this other guy i’ve been seeing lately(who i cant give my full

attention because im still interested in Michael)…PLEASE HELP!!!

Right we live in the uk..

My sister is 17, she has admitted to me she has had sex with 9 guys so far one to which is a second cousin, and done other things with others, she is currently dating well he is a very nice guy actually he is 22, he does have 2 children.

She is trying to get pregnant by having unprotected sex with her bf regulaly. i even caught her googling on what helps to you get pregnant quicker ect..

She has been having tattoos, she now has nine in total, including her new boyfriends name.

She is getting into fights with people, she and her cousin came to fist fighting in the middle of the street, she got into a fight with her great aunt also and her second cousin.

Today we have had the police round to tell her she is basically going to be arrested for an asault she did about a month ago. She has already been arrested once for assault.

She is drinking way to much she goes out on a weekend and gets paraletic drunk, last friday she got so bad she was fallin over she banged her head on a metal chair, she got into a fight in the bar, she got thrown out, she went to a differant club and carried on drinking…. then leaving the club got into an argument with her cousin again but the police stopped it…

my mom is moving soon with my brother and my sister can’t go as the place my mom is going is too small and too far away, she cant live with me i have no room i have my own kids and life, as for her dad she has fell out with him because he has taken the familys side instead of his own daughters, she hasnt heard anything from him since she beat him up…(yes she did)…!!

Her ex boyfriend is also causin her trouble she found out he was a smackhead and she left him so he has given her nothing but abuse, so she is going mad she spray painted his house ect she is adamant she is going to hit him when she sees him!!

We aren’t sure what to do or say as nothing works anymore. she has an appointment in december with a pyciatrist (Sorry i cant spell it lol..)

Any advice would be great??? thanks

My Roommate has IBS (Irritable Bowl Syndrome). He’s a nice guy, but often when we have guests he can be in the kitchen and his light tan khaki pants may turn dark brown in the back. The smell pervades the room, he becomes embarrassed, and we usually don’t see him again until the company leaves.

I have paid for most of the furniture in the house and he stains it often. What do I do? A part of me wants to tell him I can’t abide with his problem any longer- it is hard to live with- and ask him to move. Any suggestions? His name is Joe.

A guy is sitting in a bar, absolutely drooling at a pretty young thing in her short, pink mini-dress. Using the time honored ice breaker, he sends her a drink.

"How lucky am I," he thinks, as she gets up to come sit next to him. They strike up a wonderful conversation.

Finally the girl turns to him and says, "Look, you seem like a really nice guy, so I have to tell you that I’m a working girl. I get two hundred dollars for what you think you’ll ply out of me with liquor."

He replies, "I have no problem with the money but, since you were so straight forward I must tell you that when I come, I go nuts. I bite, scratch, kick, punch, pull hair, break
furniture, and just plain destroy the place."

"Oh my God! How long does that last?" she asked.

"Just until I get my two hundred bucks back," he replied.