ok, for those who are not familiar, my wife caught me cheating with my girlfriend at a restaurant.she attacked me and beat the dog sh!t out of my girlfriend for refusing to leave.she sold my car that was in her name, maxed out my cards and took the furniture,dogs and kids and left.she shut off all utilities to our house too. she wouldn’t talk to me, but my girlfriend and her friends went to my wife’s job yesterday. my girlfriend went thru my call records online and phoned my wife. she went to her job last night to pick a fight with her for the bar incident. supposedly, my wife pulled out some kind of blade or razor and swung it at my girlfriend and cut her cheek,and commeneced to whooping her as$ again.my wife’s coworker called police and they came and took my girlfriend to jail and questioned her friends and gave them fines for causing a disturbance.my wife came to my mother’s house with the kids after this happened. my wife pushed past my mother and went to my room and punched me in the face, with our kids standing right behind her.she cussed me out saying things like: "I hate you, you’re worthless and a whore. F^ck u and that b!tch u were f**king.If she comes to me again with the BS I’ll shoot the b!tch! I’m not to be f^cked with!" Then i tried to talk and explain and she put her finger in my face and said, "You say something and i’ll f^ck u up again! all this bullshit and drama because u can’t be a man about you and urs and keep ur d!ck where it belongs!" The kids were crying, she was crying and she stormed out. she slammed the door so hard behind her that the wall shook. i’m distraught.my girlfriend is in jail and i have no money to post her bond, as my wife took all the money out of our accounts and closed them.i keep calling her crying to her, begging for another chance and she said,"Nope you blew.F^ck u and if it don’t concern the kids don’t f*cking call me or i’ll put your as$ in jail." that last call was two hours ago. i’m really sorry i screwed up.she wants a divorce, saying i knew what i was doing and it wasn’t a mistake and she’s not my fool anymore. anybody ever been in this situation before? how did u handle it?

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my 3 year old son goes to my mom’s during the day for his daycare because i can not afford day care for him and his sister since he turned 3 he has been acting out all day when i am gone jumping on the furniture , walking on the kitchen table, breaking toys, saying things to her like i don’t have to when she puts him in the corner for time out he laughs at her and tells her she is funny …now my mom has a bad back and can not chase him but he gets out the front door no matter how many locks you have on the door and runs away and thinks it funny …i’v tried taking away all his toys, i’v took away the T.V shows he likes, he has been all they way down to only getting meals and water to drink because i told him that little boys that act up don’t get the good stuff to eat ..and my mom backs me up on everything i say but it’s not working he has gotten so bad when he is over there that my dad says that if i don’t get him undercontroll he can’t come back …please help

Today he threw a complete fit and I walked in in the middle. He’s broken doors, walls, furniture, etc when he gets mad. It’s really scary because he’s 18 and he’s been working out since jr high so he’s really strong.
So I guess he and my mom were in a fight and I called her in the middle to give me ride home from school (I don’t have a car, and right now I don’t really want to walk) and on the way he called and my mom was driving so I answered her phone for her. He blew up at me and hung up. He called about 6 times and kept hanging up, then the phone died. We had to get gas for the car then we came home. He was laying on the kitchen floor, furniture everywhere kicking the washer. Then he just started blaming me for everything and saying things like I’m the stupid b**** who causes the problem because I wouldn’t put my mom on the phone (but he was the one hanging up, and my mom even tried calling him but he wouldn’t answer). My mom started crying and went in the other room and he just attacked me. He pushed me into the fridge and was twisting my arms until my mom said she was going to call the cops. Then he left for a wile.
This is just one story, but he’s like a lot and he almost always blames me for everything, and even when he’s being…nice? he calls me stupid b**** and stuff like that. He’s really only nice to me when he wants something, like to use my computer or things like that, and if i say no he gets mad at me. I think that’s the way he really feels, his being nice is just an act.
My other brother who’s in college takes medicine for being bipolar. Do you think my other brother is too? Even if he is, and he starts taking medication too, I still think he hates me, but I don’t know why. Even when he’s happy he’s still rude to me only instead of swearing and yelling at me, he and his friends are making fun of me (and not just joking around and having fun).
I don’t know, I just get annoyed being in fights with him all the time, and he never apologizes or anything ever, he always just blames me, even when (like in the story) I have no idea what’s going on.