Tuesday, September 13th, 2011 at
7:01 am
BEST ANSWER 5 STARS, thank you!
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Long story short, about a month & half ago my ex & I reconnected.. He looked me up, pursued me & we started talking again. In this instance I felt it was worth a try (the reasons we had broken up are reversible) & would regret it more if I didn’t try.. We had dated over 3 years & were broken up for a little over a year. I dated a couple people, he dated one person during that time. Anyway.. Just before we had gotten back together in May, it was "in the works" that his best friend (who works for his landscaping business) would move in with him into a house to rent (my bf had been living w/parents as rent is high around here). I am 24 & he’s 23. Right now, they (including his uncle who is the landlord) are renovating the small house, putting in new flooring, painting, new outlets etc. When we talk on the phone, i hear of all the neat things they’re doing to it. I’ve yet to be invited to come over to help, watch etc. I will be very honest: I am jealous that his friend gets to see him every day at work & now will live with him when renovations are done soon. I feel in a way that he’s taken my place. He is my competition. They are attached at the hip. I am lucky to see my boyfriend once or twice a week. And NO he is not gay, he is as straight as they come before anyone suggests that lol. I’m feeling really awkward about the situation but I don’t want to come across as the clingy, jealous girlfriend. His friend is getting to be part of a fun, new experience (getting a new house ready, picking out furniture to buy, etc) and I am not involved with the new place. I work full time but I’m still stuck at home, because I wouldn’t be able to afford a place without a roomate(s). Haven’t found anything yet. Anyway, the core of the issue is I just feel crappy how his friend gets to see him so much/do a lot with him. I feel left out and kind of like the third wheel. I usually have to wait til his friend leaves on a weekend to see him. I do believe we love each other but I also feel like I may be taken for granted.. How do i make it clear I need to be seen more & be more of a priority? How do I feel less jealous of his new roomate? I feel as though I am being pushed aside & it’s not a good feeling.. its like he’s trying to leave the single life but have me on the side (his friend is single & likes to hang out at bars some, kinda immature).. but yet he had pursued me for many years & acted like he loved me.. Any thoughts/input appreciated a ton.. basically it just feels like the roles are literally reversed.. I am the friend he hangs out with now & then, and he’s the girlfriend w/him 24/7 lol.. :-/ Thank You for help!
Sunday, August 28th, 2011 at
11:12 am
Would they need special care if there paralized from the waist down? How would they take showers if they can’t bring there wheel chair in the shower room?
Wednesday, August 17th, 2011 at
10:20 am
My wife has musclar dystrophy and I need toget her a electric wheel chair and get one threw NHS, Is there charity i can help get fiancial support from? Good chairs cost a fair bit of money but would give my wife the freedom she needs.
Tuesday, July 26th, 2011 at
5:30 am
I am in a wheel chair. I cannot walk at all. Sometimes my bottom gets so sore I could cry. I have heard about a jell cushion to sit on. Sre there any others?
Friday, July 15th, 2011 at
8:48 am
One guys in a wheel chair and at the begging it tells everyones name and gives them a title..anyone knw tht movie..i wanna watch it and i cant member name..it was good movie
Friday, July 15th, 2011 at
1:36 am
What is the difference between wheel chair accessible cabins on cruises and non-wheel chair accessible?
My partner and I are not handicap and I have been assigned a room that is wheel chair accessible.
Can I ask the cruise line to change the room? Or it is not that bad?
Tuesday, July 12th, 2011 at
10:20 am
What is the best brand of carrier that will mount to my 1 1/4 trailer hitch on my car to carry a walker, or wheel chair on the outside of my car? Do I need to use a bicycle rack?
Monday, February 28th, 2011 at
4:01 pm
A student sits on a stool that is free to
rotate. Initially, the student and the stool
are motionless and the student holds a
bicycle wheel that is rotating clockwise
when viewed from above. The student
then flips the bicycle wheel upside down
so that it now rotates counter clockwise
when viewed from above. What happens
to the student’s motion after flipping the
bicycle wheel (continue to view from
above)?
The answer is that the student rotates clockwise, however I am not sure how to get this answer
Tuesday, February 22nd, 2011 at
9:32 am
i really need one who fights for the disabled i happen to be in a wheel chair if you are an attonery or know some one who is that would like to have a case that could be won easy let me know .you can find out more about my case by looking at my other question .
also that same police man came in to the bar which i was at and told me i was not aloud to roll down the road in my wheel chair and i wasnt in the road nor at that time had i had any thing to drink and he also said if i could walk then it would be ok for me to walk down the road he also told the other people in the bar that if no one would take me home he was going to take me to jail.please check out my other question for the rest of the story and what they did to me at the jail.i have witness at the jail and the bar who will tell you the same thing im telling you and i have never met none of these witness before in my life
if you are going to give unfit answers to this question and the other one dont bother answering
if you are going to give unfit answers to this question and the other one dont bother answering
Sunday, February 20th, 2011 at
11:56 pm
My husband can’t kick the nicotine habit (he doesn’t want to). He now lives in a wheelchair. I took him to a social gathering of old friends at a bar yesterday. He was enjoying the visit, but after about an hour I had to move him in his wheelchair to a place outside the building, so he could have a cigarette, after which I had to move him back inside again. It’s was terribly inconvenient, we had to ask several people to move their chairs. Is there any other nicotine equivalent that an addict like him could use that would be the equivalent of a cigarette? I’ll swear if I had an uncontrollable habit like that, I would know what the alternatives are.
He doesn’t WANT to QUIT. I’m just looking for an alternative that would make life easier for the rest of us. Instead of having to wheel him outside so he can smoke, give him something that will fill the craving until later.
Wednesday, January 26th, 2011 at
9:34 pm
A man is in a bar and falling off his stool every couple of minutes. He is obviously drunk. So the bartender says to another man in the bar: "Why don’t you be a good Samaritan and take him home."
The man takes the drunk out the door and to his car and he stumbles at least ten times. They drive along and the drunk points out his house to the man. He stops the car and the drunk stumbles up the steps to his house with the man.
The drunk’s wife greets them at the door: "Why thank you for bringing him home for me, but where’s his wheel chair?"
Sunday, January 9th, 2011 at
7:09 pm
A Free State "Boer" walks into his local bar and to his surprise
finds a little Japanese man sitting in his regular chair.
"Kleing*t, you sommer sitting op My stoel" he shouts angrily.
Before he knows it the Jap is up and knocks the farmer flying.
After the farmer recovers he asks "What the blerry hell was that?"
"Zat maltial alt flom my countly Japan"
replies the Jap and strolls off in a stroppy way.
The following day the farmer finds the Jap in "His" seat again.
The farmer says "You is alweer sitting on my stoel"
And again the Jap knocks the farmer out with some nifty Kung Fu.
On regaining consciousness the farmer asks "What the bl*rry hell was
that
for?"
"Zat Kalate flom my countly Japan", and as stroppy as ever ambles
off……
Now the farmer is die m*er in.
Next day the farmer finds the Jap sitting in "his" chair again.
He says "So, you is alweer sitting op My stoel, Vat So",
and he knocks the daylights out of the Jap with one blow.
The little Jap comes around after some time and asks the farmer
"What was that?"
The farmer replies:
"That, my china was a bliksemse Isuzu 2.8 liter turbo diesel bakkie
se wheel spanner………. also from your country Japan"
its a south african thing…
Friday, January 7th, 2011 at
4:44 pm
A man is in a bar and falling off his stool every couple of minutes. He is obviously drunk. So the bartender says to another man in the bar: "Why don’t you be a good Samaritan and take him home."
The man takes the drunk out the door and to his car and he stumbles at least ten times. They drive along and the drunk points out his house to the man. He stops the car and the drunk stumbles up the steps to his house with the man.
The drunk’s wife greets them at the door: "Why thank you for bringing him home for me, but where’s his wheel chair?"
Sunday, January 2nd, 2011 at
11:57 pm
A man is in a bar and falling off his stool every couple of minutes. He is obviously drunk. So the bartender says to another man in the bar: "Why don’t you be a good Samaritan and take him home."
The man takes the drunk out the door and to his car and he stumbles at least ten times. They drive along and the drunk points out his house to the man. He stops the car and the drunk stumbles up the steps to his house with the man.
The drunk’s wife greets them at the door: "Why thank you for bringing him home for me, but where’s his wheel chair?"
Friday, December 10th, 2010 at
9:31 pm
I know she is in a wheel chair but was it just me or did she stand up at the bar because I think that is a miracle if that is the case.